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One Day Workshops

Workshop Description

Attachment not only tells us what the key moves and moments are in the dance of love, it offers a guide to the healing and enhancement of our most important relationships. This workshop will present an overview of love as an attachment bond. Attachment theory offers us the first clear, evidence based model of adult love and loving. We will explore the nine tenets of attachment and how they help us understand couple’s emotions, interactions and change processes.

This workshop also offers an introduction to EFT, an effective brief approach to shaping loving relationships. EFT reflects the most recent research on the nature of relationship distress, the nature of adult love and the nature of emotion. EFT is at the cutting edge of the new era of couple therapy. It offers clinicians a systematic map, not just to conflict reduction but to the creation of safe emotional connection. Dr. Johnson will offer an outline of EFT and its vision of effective dependency. The three stages of the change process will be articulated s well as the process of fostering forgiveness and dealing with relationship injuries. Specific interventions will be listed and demonstrated with video clips and clinical examples. Theory, research and intervention will be integrated to empower clinicians in their attempts to shape loving, lasting bonds.


Objectives: To increase participants’ ability to:

Learn how to see the dance of love clearly, understand the music of the dance and move couples into effective loving interdependence.

Learn to understand the defining moments in the drama of relationships and how to systematically move couples from destructive hostile interactions into safe, empowering emotional connection. Emotion is the music of the dance between partners, learn to change the music and change the dance.

Outline a clear theory of adult love and describe the tenets of attachment theory. Link these tenets to key emotions and events in interactions between partners.

Focus interventions on the key elements of the drama of distress, de-escalate toxic interaction patterns.

Structure positive interactions that renew trust and intimacy, create antidote dialogues to heal injuries and relationship traumas.

Use EFT interventions with depressed, anxious, and traumatized couples.


Course Outline: One Day Workshop

AM - The Need for a Theory of Love

Couple therapy – The New Era
Introduction to EFT; Basic Content
The story of attachment theory:The Basic Ideas of Attachment with Clinical Examples
Lunch

PM - The Steps and Stages of EFT

The 3 Stages and 9 Steps of EFT
Video Viewing and Exercises
Discussions


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